May 31, 2019
Wounded Healers Listen
But we have this treasure in clay jars, so that it may be made clear
that this extraordinary power belongs to God and does not come from us.
2 Corinthians 4:7
Because our wounds have been
healed by Jesus, we have oneness with God. God’s Spirit has come to make His
home within our fragile, mortal lives. Therefore, even though we face many
difficulties in life, we are not destroyed. As we die to our own self-interest,
the life of Jesus becomes visible in our mortal flesh. (2 Corinthians 4: 8-12)
It is this truth that empowers us to listen with our wounds.
Whenever we are with a person who
is suffering, there is a HUGE temptation to share our own story, our own
experience of pain and suffering. However, a wounded healer is one who can
listen to a fellow sojourner without succumbing to the temptation to talk about
their own pain and suffering. Our wounded experience can empower us to listen
with empathy, compassion and love. Having to remember and talk about our own
experiences may well be an indicator that we have not yet experienced the
fullness of God’s healing in our own lives.
The psalmist implores us to be
still and know God. (Psalm 46:10) His inspiration came from God’s promise to
King Jehoshaphat, “Do not be afraid! Don’t be discouraged by this mighty army,
for the battle is not yours, but God’s” (2 Chronicles 20:15). This too is God’s
promise to us! The Apostle Paul affirmed this when he wrote, “For God is
working in you, giving you the desire and the power to do what pleases him”
(Philippians 2:13). This means that when we are with another person who is
going through a time of trial, we can be still and trust that God is at work.
We can trust that our own wounds will empower us to listen with our whole
being.
My Takeaway: I believe learning to become an empathic listener will
allow me to be a vessel of healing for the other person, while I receive God’s
grace for my own continued healing. Maybe for you also.
Sē’lah
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(Selah is a word that appears in the Book
of Psalms that I often use as the Complimentary Closing in my correspondence.
Its meaning, as I use the word, is to pause and think about these things.)
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