The Wisdom of Accepted Tenderness

Meditations for Ragamuffins

April 23, 2024

The Wisdom of Accepted Tenderness

Jesus said, “Come to me, all of you who are weary and carry heavy burdens, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you. Let me teach you, because I am humble and gentle at heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy to bear, and the burden I give you is light.”

Matthew 11:28-30

Brennan Manning paraphrased the words of Jesus in Matthew 11:28-30 and wrote, “Come on, all you who are wiped out, confused, bewildered, lost, beat up, scarred, scared, threatened, depressed and I’ll enlighten your mind with wisdom and fill your heart with the tenderness that I have received from my Father.”   (The Wisdom of Tenderness: What Happens When God's Fierce Mercy Transforms Our Lives HarperOne 5/30/04) Forgiveness has already been granted to the sinner, and all the sinner needs is wisdom to accept their forgiveness and repent, and God provides that wisdom through His prevenient grace. Then the sinner gets to live confidently in the wisdom of accepted tenderness.

This is the manifestation of the first beatitude, “Blessed are the poor in spirit.” Living in the wisdom of accepted tenderness is living in the Kingdom of Heaven. This is a truth that takes some time to process and internalize and take root in your life. When it does, it becomes a part of the truth that sets you free.

At the heart of accepted tenderness is God’s unconditional pardon of sinners. Everything in our culture drives us to condition God’s pardon on our behavior. Some people believe God pardons us because we repent and seek forgiveness, as if our contrition justifies God’s pardon. Nope. Our pardon was secured by the death and resurrection of Jesus, which occurred while we were still sinners. Repentance is to change one's way of life and comes after the sinner accepts God’s pardon, God’s tenderness, which has already been extended.

The unconditional nature of God’s grace, love, forgiveness, and pardon is unfathomable to our minds which are so entrenched in the Western Civilization culture of performance-based-acceptance. It may be helpful to spend time meditating on the woman in John 8, the return of the prodigal in Luke 15, and the last-to-arrive laborers in Matthew 20. After pondering these passages, ask yourself, “What did the woman do to justify Jesus’ words of, “Neither do I condemn you”; what did the son do to justify his father’s extravagant welcome home; and what did the last-to-arrive laborer do to justify receiving a full day’s wages?

My Takeaway: One day I heard God’s Spirit speak to my spirit, “You are my beloved son, with whom I am delighted and upon whom my favor rests.” What did I do to justify the tenderness of the Father’s words to me? Not a thing. Even my wisdom to accept God’s tenderness was a response to God first extending His prevenient grace.

Sē’lah

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(Selah is a word that appears in the Book of Psalms that I often use as the Complimentary Closing in my correspondence. Its meaning, as I use the word, is to pause and think about these things.)

 

These meditations are written by Alex M. Knight as he seeks the life in Christ as his way of life.  The meditations are published on the BLOG, http://seekingthelifeinchrist.blogspot.com/ and they are also distributed on the Constant Contact email server. You may subscribe to this email service by sending an email to: amkrom812@gmail.com.

 

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