September 10, 2015
Overflowing Attachment
Jesus asked, “Who is my mother?
Who are my brothers?” Then he pointed to his disciples and said, “Look, these
are my mother and brothers.
Matthew 12:48-49
The sin of attachments: how many
people do you need? I recall a class I was taking on pastoral care. The teacher
led us in an exercise where we were simulating having to cut our attachments to
things as well as goals and ambitions and finally people. The last part of the
exercise called for us to step into the shoes of a person with a terminal
illness, and as they would have to do at the end of their life, let go of our
attachment to the one person for whom we have never doubted their love. It was
an excruciating experience with lots of tears in the class. My friend sitting
next to me was paralyzed by grief, and could not bring himself to simulate
cutting that final attachment.
Some people have misinterpreted
Jesus’ teachings, and believe we are called to avoid all attachments to people.
Actually, Jesus calls us to love others with the very same love that he has for
us. Jesus couldn’t endure the cross without an abiding attachment to those for
whom he died! Jesus calls us to be attached to one another, after we first have
eternally bound ourselves to our God who loves us and gave himself for us. Some
folks miss this first step.
If we are not first bound to God,
we mistakenly believe that we can meet our needs for love, acceptance and
self-worth through our interactions, our relationships, and our attachments to
others. That’s like trying to quench our thirst by drinking salt water; it’s
not going to happen! However, when we are first attached to God in Christ
Jesus, our cup overflows with his everlasting love and affection for us. It is
this overflow that we get to offer into the lives of the people for whom we
relate in this mortal world.
That word above all
earthly powers, no thanks to them, abideth;
The Spirit and the
gifts are ours through Him Who with us sideth:
Let goods and kindred
go, this mortal life also;
The body they may
kill: God’s truth abideth still,
His kingdom is
forever.
A Mighty Fortress Is Our God
Verse Four
Martin Luther
Sē’lah
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(Selah is a word that appears in the
Book of Psalms that I often use as the Complimentary Closing in my
correspondence. Its meaning, as I use the word, is to pause and think about
these things.)
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Meditations on The Story of My Life as told by Jesus
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